My Story : I have been married for 7 years, now my wife has started this work
This is the story of a love marriage man who had married his girlfriend but now his wife has ruined his life. His wife’s nature suddenly changed, she does not understand what to do.
I am a married man. I had a love marriage with my wife. We both met online, after 6 months we decided to get married. In the beginning everything was fine between us, but suddenly my wife has changed so much that I do not understand what to do? In fact, she keeps yelling at me for everything. I agree that I am not very good at managing things, but I guess everything takes a while to learn.
She taunts me on small things saying ‘pick up your shoes, why have you kept stuff here, you are not interested in any household work’. I don’t want to hide from you that we have been married for only 7 months now and I sometimes question myself whether I took the right decision marrying him. Perhaps the biggest reason behind this is because we did not spend much time with each other before marriage. I don’t know how is his behavior? I don’t understand what to do? He has made my life difficult in this way. Have I committed a sin by getting married? (All images are indicative, we protect the identity of users in the stories shared by them)
Ravi, founder of AIR Institute of Realization and AIR Center of Enlightenment, says that marriage is a very delicate relationship, in which husband and wife have to support each other and walk very wisely. This is because when you get married, you feel that this relationship is a bouquet full of roses, in which there will never be any problem.
But during this time we forget one thing that roses also have thorns, which can hurt us if not handled properly. It is exactly the same in a married relationship. If both of you do not work towards making it perfect, then this relationship is sure to go bad.
As you mentioned that your wife keeps shouting at you on small things. In such a situation, I would say that first of all talk to your wife. Ask her what she wants from you. Does she want your help with the household chores or does she have a problem with the fact that you are not good at managing things? In such a situation, when you come to know about his mind, then work on those things, due to which problems are starting to arise between the two of you.
I am asking you to do this also because you are not alone anymore. In such a situation, you will have to change your old habits a little. Not only this, also make your wife realize that you know that she gets tired of doing household chores. You want to help them too. But you are facing some difficulties in managing things.
After listening to all your words, I would say that help your wife in household chores. Do your best not to make her feel like she’s doing everything on her own. This is because you will also have to put in some effort to make your marriage successful. Instead of finding fault with your wife, try to see her positive side.
He is here only for you. If you are also not with him or start questioning your decision even after seven months of marriage, then things are bound to go wrong. Don’t let your marriage become just a social get-together, but add a touch of understanding along with romance.
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