Jija Sali Love Affair : Relationship with sister-in-law did not happen, now there is trouble
Love Affair: Even after 10 years of marriage, my wife could not become a mother. When I came to know about this, not only was my heart broken but I also started distancing myself from him. I am a married person. I have been married for 6 years. But my problem is that we haven’t had any kids yet. When I came to know that my wife could never become a mother, I was very upset. Meanwhile, my affair started with my sister-in-law.
Actually my sister-in-law is still unmarried. She often keeps coming to our house. When he came to know that his sister could not become a mother, his attachment towards me started increasing. During this, I also started increasing closeness with my sister-in-law.
We started chatting with each other for hours. We both also expressed love to each other. Recently she came to our house. That night we also had a relationship. We both are in a relationship for the last one year. I love her very much. she likes me too My wife also knows about our relationship. But the problem is that now she is going to get married. My wife’s parents have fixed her relationship elsewhere. I can’t live without him. She also wants to be with me. I also talked about this to his family members, but they are not agreeing to our marriage. My wife also wants me to marry her. But his parents are adamant on their stubbornness. In such a situation, I do not understand what to do?
Psychologist and psychotherapist Dr. Anamika says that the triangle of relationships creates a lot of problems after a while. This is because no one can be completely happy and satisfied in such a bond. Same is the case in your case also. You are talking about keeping your wife as well as your sister-in-law with you. In such a situation, the most important thing is that whatever decision you take for yourself, do it very thoughtfully and with a promise to fulfill for life.
As you mentioned your wife has no objection to you having a relationship with her sister. But his family members are not agreeing to this relationship. However, in such a situation, I will tell you that his parents are absolutely right in their place. This is because no parent would want one of their daughters to break the house of their other daughter. This is because till now both of you were only in a relationship, but when you will get married tomorrow, your responsibility towards sister-in-law will also increase. In such a situation, not only will you stop paying attention to your wife, but your responsibilities towards her will also start decreasing, which no parent can tolerate.
After listening to your words, I can understand that your wife has accepted your relationship under great compulsion, the biggest reason of which is because she can never become a mother. But the thing to think is that if this problem was with you instead of your wife, would you be able to accept someone’s relationship with your wife. Probably not. That is why it is necessary that the picture should be seen from both sides. As far as the child is concerned, both of you can also adopt a child, which is not difficult at all in today’s time.
May be you are thinking that all this was going on for last one year also, so what is difficult now. But the truth is that difficulties come only after getting tied up in a relationship. In such a situation, it becomes very important that all three of you, your wife and sister-in-law contact a professional psychologist at once. This counseling is also very important for sister-in-law to join life with someone else so that her past life does not affect her future married life. Wherein both you and your wife can maintain your relationship honestly.
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